Should They Stay or Should They Go Part 2: The Out-of-State School Experience

The U.S. Department of Education, National Center for Education Statistics, 2003–04 National Postsecondary Student Aid Study, reports that over 80% of students stay in their home state for college. That’s a lot of kids. And we all know why many students choose to stay in-state: scholarships, lower tuition, proximity to family. But what about the out-of-state option? Why would you want to leave home for school? And what are the implications of such a decision? Let’s find out!
The Wild Blue Yonder
Most of us spend the younger part of our lives in the same town. So getting attached to a place is understandable. It’s convenient and familiar…and safe. But experiencing new places and cultures provides an education your kids won’t find in books. Talk with them about opening a wider net when considering colleges and entertain every possibility. And before they think about all the reasons why they can’t, just remind them that they won’t know unless they try.

Out-of-State Advantage
For all the talk about how in-state schools are less expensive, there are some things that an in-state option won’t be able to provide. Getting experience in different parts of the country or world is an excellent resume´ booster. It shows a diverse work history and makes for great conversation. This is especially true when it comes to long-term career goals. For example, someone looking to study fashion would likely want to go to where the fashion industry is thriving. This is the ideal situation to get the kind of internship that will help your children once they graduate. The earlier they can start networking within the industry of their choice the better. This is also true of other occupations–from science to filmmaking, where they go to school can make a difference in the success they’ll attain after college.
Other Considerations
Living and working independently of their parents is a tremendous learning experience that will help students transition from high school to college. After all, no one is going to be looking over their shoulder to make sure they did their homework. The independent nature of college is the perfect complement to an independent lifestyle that takes them away from the comfort of home. For those prospective students whose occupations are going to take them out-of-state then the choice has already been made. But for those kids who are still on the fence, we suggest you sit down with them and explore the out-of-state option and consider the robust life experience that comes with it.
